Posts Tagged ‘heartwork journaling’
You are beautiful! – Heartwork Journaling
Beautiful Heartworker, You are beautiful. So many people do not believe this. We think beauty is for others, but not for us. I think you’re beautiful. No matter what your age. No matter what your successes or failures No matter your completed, discarded or half finished projects. There is beauty in you now. This very…
Read MoreThe Paradox of Change – Heartwork Journaling
Changing Heartworker, I love self-help. Working on yourself is awesome. But not if it’s a punitive, mean way. Self-help is not fun when the goal is to “fix” brokenness. That can be hard, slogging-though-the-mud work. What if you’re not a problem that needs to be solved? That’s how I used to think of myself. One…
Read MoreThe Cost of Comfort – Heartwork Journaling
Comfortable Heartworker, Comfort. It sounds so good. Warm. Cozy. Comfortable. Yet there’s a huge cost to comfort. Comfort doesn’t change you. Comfort doesn’t challenge you. Comfort pretends to be safe. Comfort begs you to stay when things get scary. Comfort asks you not to stray from what you’ve always done. Comfort nudges you to people-please,…
Read MoreWhere does worthiness really come from? – Heartwork Journaling
Worthy Heartworker, On worthiness… Do you have an answer (that you believe) to this question: “How am I worthy, whole and valuable NOW?” Right now, without: any conditions changing… you doing anything more to “achieve” worthiness… anyone telling you / seeing you / acting toward you as worthy, whole and valuable… If you don’t have…
Read MoreWhat is fierce self-love? – Heartwork Journaling
Lovable Heartworker, Fierce self-love is NOT a bubble bath, glass of wine, nature hike, expensive bag, or even yoga. Fierce self-love is… Learning to become a person who honors your word to yourself. Fierce self-love is… Refusing to beat yourself up when you don’t. Fierce self-love is… Identifying and eliminating people-pleasing… In a firm, yet…
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