What is fierce self-love? – Heartwork Journaling

What is fierce self-love?

Lovable Heartworker, Fierce self-love is NOT a bubble bath, glass of wine, nature hike, expensive bag,  or even yoga. Fierce self-love is… Learning to become a person who honors your word to yourself. Fierce self-love is… Refusing to beat yourself up when you don’t. Fierce self-love is… Identifying and eliminating people-pleasing…  In a firm, yet…

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What if success is really now? – Heartwork Journaling

What if success is really now?

Searching Heartworker, Success. It means different things to different people. For most, success is always somewhere sometime in the future. Never here. No matter what your definition of success is, one thing is true. When you need success, you push it away. When you don’t need success, the success you want comes more easily. It’s…

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How to Defy Gravity – Heartwork Journaling

How to Defy Gravity

Defiant Heartworker, What if you decided to defy gravity and do the impossible? You’d have to stop believing the current thoughts that have created your current results. You’d have to stop waiting for circumstances to change to actually start doing the thing. You’d have to find the courage to take step 1, 2, 3 and…

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Justification = arguing for your limitations

Justification = arguing for your limitations

Justified Heartworker, People love to justify. I used to be the QUEEN of justification This is what justifying looked like for me: “Men can’t be trusted.” This was my reason why I couldn’t trust men (and myself) to create a healthy relationship. “I’m just not good with numbers.” This was my reason why I didn’t…

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What’s going right? – Heartwork Journaling

What's going right?

Doubtful Heartworker, What went wrong? What isn’t working? We’re really, really good at: seeing what went wrong noticing what is currently not working preparing for what might go wrong next We evolved over centuries to be EXPERTS at “something has gone wrong.” In fact, we’re so good at this that EVEN when there are things…

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